Can afford or not

Actually we've been planning to buy a propety quite sumtime oredy.but it never turn to a reality bcos of...i dun know whats the exact reason that delaying the process.n this few days,we starting thinking of it again seriously.we know we need to start taking a step,n today we've made a calculation on whether we can afford it or not.to service the monthly payment is ok, but to fork out of 60k which are the 10% deposit and legal fees,is a burden for us.means that we need to sacrifice all of our saving plus our Epf.is it gonna be worth it to sacrifice all that we got to invest on our own resident,a place for us to stay day n night.i think we need an opinion from the expert,at least from experienced people.i know its not gonna be a waste to invest in property,bcos the location of the house is quite good.common...we need to evaluate.this few days,we gonna crack our head,to make the biggest decision in our life.adios....